I kinda wanna do a blog post about getting commissions on places like tumblr or DA or FA or whatever. I DO have a big essay about it but I’d like to do something else similar.

And just on self-promotion in general.

Why are you following me?

Put a reason in my ask.

"I ruined everything.” DA | WEASYL | FA

"I ruined everything.” DA | WEASYL | FA

Dawn of the Final Day

Today is the last day of August and the last page in my August journal which I have been using to work through issues. I think this was a very good exercise and would recommend it to anyone who has reached a point in their healing where they are comfortable writing down and looking at events as they happened. I’m going to share my affirmations with you.

  • I was RIGHT to end those friendships.
  • I was NOT stupid for allowing them to happen in the first place.
  • It is okay to use the life/art/writing skills I learned from them.
  • (1) had an unhealthy attachment to me that was bad for both of us. I was cut off from my friends and threatened with being responsible for (1)’s self injury if I did not ‘come home on time’.
  • (2) was a proven liar, a racist, a snob, had a victim complex and was a hypocrite. I did not owe (2) my friendship just because I was given gifts.
  • It was not and is not my job to fix their problems.
  • Their various illnesses and home situations did not excuse their bad behavior.
  • I am not weak for taking a long time to heal and neither is anybody else.

2008 is when I escaped. 

My friendship is PRECIOUS and a GIFT and I do not have to give it to anyone if I don’t want to.

underface:

THIS IS WHAT 600 EGGS LOOKS LIKE. WELCOME TO EGG HELL.

UNDER WHY ARE THERE SO MANY EGGS WHAT DID YOU DO TO BE SENT TO EGG HELL

bonelessbuffalochicken:

"You’re gonna do great today"

bonelessbuffalochicken:

"You’re gonna do great today"

dancingpipo:

Summer days:)

dancingpipo:

Summer days:)

transcosette:

we as a society need to start talking about abusive friendships, bc those exist and seem to be really common

and most people in them dont know how do deal w the abuse bc its normally emotional abuse which gets delegitimized, and its a platonic relationship and not a romo or sexual one, so it gets delegitimized for that too